How do people around you look, when you are happy?
Everyone looks good.
And when you aren’t?
Everyone seems to have some issue, especially the ones who are close- they generally bear the maximum brunt of it.
Often, it’s not about people around you being good or bad, it’s about how happy or unhappy you are with yourself which you project on others.
A cloudy windy day looks romantic in good health while the same day feels like hell when you have a cold.
And being happy and peaceful everyday needs effort and accountability which we shy away from and keep attributing it to some external factor beyond our control.